What goes on around “ I would rather not say”
I allow myself 30 minutes every morning to go through the introductions set up by the relevant dating sites.
I encourage my clients to do what I do : read between the lines.
If your dater states “I would rather not say” around:
- Have children – it means they have children but would not rather go into that. Think to yourself, is this the way to start a conversation?
- Relationship status – they are probably married or co-habiting with a partner
- Live alone – think to yourself: what are they hiding?
- Education – this probably indicates they have not had much schooling . If that is an issue for you, go onto the next one!
Remember, the purpose of Dr Catherine Dating Guru is to make dating safe and fun. Avoid the time wasters!