What to do when you have been named a favourite
(Further ice breakers)
You have just received a wink or notification that you are someone’s favourite. Don’t let that go… Reply to your on-line dater. Start a conversation…
I suggest something along the lines of writing to them to thank them for making you one of their favourites, or for sending you a wink. Then ask a question such as:
I note you call yourself on line (say) “Peter Pan”, should I call you Peter?
Tell me more about yourself – what are your hobbies?
How come you speak French?
In your profile, you say you are American – how long have you lived in the UK? Where are you from in the States?
How many children do you have?/how old are they?
You say you read a lot – so do I. What sort of books do you like? What are your favourites authors?
I note you like plays? Have you been to the theatre recently? What did you see? I saw XXXX and would thoroughly recommend it.
You say you like Italian cuisine – do you have a favourite restaurant?
I note you like to travel where are your favourite destinations?